As we are just now coming to understand money and stewardship over the past few years–we totally want S & L to understand a lot earlier. We try to make a point about talking to the kids about “our” money –and really emphasizing that it all belongs to God! We’ve been putting off the allowance thing for a while now, and had never (up until last week really had a good ol’ 3 1/2 year old talk about finances with Sydney. So, before bed we sat down and Rodd talked to her about the money that God gives us to use and the whole shpeal on how we first give a part of it back to God and then put some in the piggy bank to use and some in a separate place for savings but that it all all all still belongs to Him!
Then there are the fun times of walking through Target and they’re both wanting to buy every toy and special thing that they see. (They come by this honestly from their mom. I’m usually the one pointing the toys out to them.) Oh the joys of talking about how we don’t need everything we see “even if your friend at school has it.” A friend told me a while a go that with things like materialism, you have to plan how to protect against it just as intentionally as you immunize against measles, mumps and rubella. She encouraged me to plan all the good things that I want to be planting in their hearts to take root and grow, from the very beginning of their lives. Rodd and I want them to see and feel most importantly that we are happy and content with eternal things: (hmmm…better trust God for help in that area) the good plans God has for us, and the price He paid for us so that we can be with Him forever. They need to keep hearing that to counteract everything they see around them.
For me, growing up in PNG, it was easier not to feel somehow “gypped’ about material things because the tribal people had so much less. We were always the rich kids in the village. If anything, we felt guilty about how much we had, rather than wanting more. But now, raising my kids in the good ol USA–that mindset has changed and I don’t want my kids to grow up with the opposite mentality. So we’re still figuring this all out, but I guess we have to start somewhere. While they’re still little, sitting in my lap and believing everything I say–I really want to make it a point to not just assume that they know what I believe but explain it to them over and over. Even if it seems ridiculously repetitive! (What part of motherhood isn’t repetitive?)


I’ve heard that it’s best to have your “piggy bank” (or whatever you use) be something clear so they can actually see the money and have a visual of what’s being saved, what’s spending money etc.. We’re using this glass jar as the tithe money– and the piggy bank will be her spending money. She’s totally getting into it! It’s awesome!
I saw someone use a small sized oatmeal container, covered it with cute paper & slit a whole in the plastic lid and it was an adorable little bank.
More blogging…soon to come.